Back in the day, when I was a journalist, my first ever editor told me that if you ever see a question in the headline, the answer is probably “no”. That advice has almost never steered me wrong, but of course, good journalists also do their research to back up that “no”…. so this is that part!

Why did I wait 30 something years of my life to discover that erotic massage was something women could get too? Society winks and smiles about men getting their “Happy Ending”, a bit of rub and tug, but finds it hard to fathom that women might need erotic, sensual and arousing touch just as much.

A journalist from Buzzfeed recently interviewed me about “sex scheduling”, a practice in which couples schedule sex by putting it on the calendar and committing to it. You can read that article here, but here’s an expanded answer for you, my readers!