Blog & Updates
The Playful Girlfriend and the Games That Open Us Up
The playful girlfriend you think you've lost isn't gone, she's just hiding in the attic. Here's why one stupid card game can do what a…
Vaginismus: When Your Body Guards the Gate
Not too tight, not a lost cause, just a pelvic floor guarding you far too well. Here's how it learns to let go.
Physical Signs Your Body Is Releasing Trauma Explained
The physical signs your body is releasing trauma – shaking, tears, heat, yawning – aren't your body breaking. It's old survival energy finally thawing out.
Is Trauma Really Stored in the Body?
Not a monster in your muscle – just a nervous system stuck on guard. Here's what "stored" trauma really means.
Is your vibrator numbing you out? (Probably not)
Back in the day, when I was a journalist, my first ever editor told me that if you ever see a question in the headline,…
Erotic massage
Why did I wait 30 something years of my life to discover that erotic massage was something women could get too? Society winks and smiles…
Scheduling Sex, Yay or Nay?
A journalist from Buzzfeed recently interviewed me about “sex scheduling”, a practice in which couples schedule sex by putting it on the calendar and committing…