Your job isn't to fix his erection. It's to keep the penis from running the whole relationship.

After menopause, desire, arousal and lubrication stop lining up the way we've been taught they should. Dryness doesn't prove you've lost interest, wetness doesn't prove you want it, and a slower, changed sexual response isn't the same thing as the end of your sexuality. Here's what's really going on, and…